December 5, 2010

Aloha and Farewell Mrs. V

BabyBlueOnline is a favorite blog of mine. Today, BabyBlue posted a touching personal tribute to two special people who shared and helped shape her early life. I'm a fan of gratitude and recognition, so I decided to share this post with the rabble here at GNN.
Today the news came of the passing of a great lady - a great lady - a lady simply known to thousands of students at Radford High School in Honolulu, Hawaii as Mrs. V.

It wasn't long after my arrival in Hawaii as a high school freshman that I met Mr. and Mrs. V, John and Barbara Velasco. Mr. V was the head coach at one of the leading athletic champion public schools in the State of Hawaii, Radford in Honolulu. Mrs. V was in charge of student activities. Together they mentored thousands of young students navigating their way through adolescence.

In my senior year I got very involved in Student Council and student activities. Along with two other classmates, Larry Wolfe and Rusty Vierra, we chaired the Assembly & Awards Committee and our advisor was Mrs. V. Our committee won the Committee of the Year Award and while we worked very hard, we could not have done it without the steady and wise counsel of Mrs. V. Through her efforts I was introduced to the world of politics and government as well as event planning - and she made it fun! She was always solid, always grounded, always positive and kind and approachable. But at the same time, there was this unspoken expectation that you never wanted to let her down. You wanted to make her proud. She was an inspiration and I admired and respected her. She was the truthteller and she knew how to maintain discipline and focus, but she also laughed at our jokes and pranks - well, most of the time.

Today the news came that she had passed away and the first person I thought of was Mr. V. Mr. V shepherded a remarkably diverse community of students from all walks of life, race, culture, and nationality. He was fearless and was one of the few people who could silence a room with a mere look. He was extraordinarily disciplined and led the Varsity football team to numerous championships, including my sophomore year. He led the team again the year after I graduated - and won the state championship, but the story of that victory was one for the papers.

The week of the state championship, Mr. V suddenly was stricken with a heart attack and died. It was so sudden and shocking and of course, it stunned the Radford community. Though filled with grief, the football team decided to go ahead and play in the championship and dedicated the game to Mr. V. The public school team stood in a circle on the field and offered a prayer and then played their hearts out and won the game.

Mrs. V inspired generations of students and her inspiration continues to this day. Thank you for your confidence in so many, for your firm direction with a gentle hand. for your warmth and faith - you made a difference in so many lives, Mrs. V - you made a difference in my life.
Mahalo nui loa, Aloha ke Akua.


Anonymous said...

This makes me recall so many good people from my youth that I'll never have the chance to thank.

Anonymous said...

I will soon be writing a post to thank a teacher whose warmth and sense of humor shaped my own. His greatest gift was to make history real. God bless Saul Lieberman.

I wish he were alive to read it.

Wetzy said...

My father was a high school teacher for over 30 years. I always resented it when former students would stop him and tell him about their lives.I realize now that hearing about their lives was one of his greatest pleasures. This post made me get moist in the eyes.

Kini said...

Aloha No!

Rhod said...

An acute loss for you, my friend. They don't call them formative years for nothing, and you lived them on a mysterious island.

Opus #6 said...

The Vs really understood what life was about. What luck that they were in a position to teach their wisdom to generations of American children.

God bless them and their loved ones.

Anonymous said...

Great post and reminder to be that kind of person/mentor to others. Thanks, Nick.